Celebrating 35 months: Your toddler’s big birthday is here!

For you

• 💛As you approach this third birthday milestone, take a moment to reflect on your own growth as a parent alongside your child. It is normal to feel a mix of nostalgia for the early days and excitement for the independence your toddler is showing now.
• 🌿If you need a break away from your child, ask another trusted adult to take over supervision first. If no one can take over, stay nearby and keep watching your child while you pause and breathe.
• 🫂If you have a partner, schedule a brief check-in to discuss how you are both feeling about this transition into the preschool years. Sharing the load and validating each other's experiences can strengthen your team dynamic.
• ✨Consider creating a simple photo book or a list of your favorite moments you have shared with your child to celebrate the journey. Acknowledging your shared history can be a grounding experience for the whole family.

For your baby

• 🧸At 35 months, your toddler may be refining their motor skills and coordination, often showing more balance when walking, running, or climbing on low structures. Observe their movements as they explore their environment with increasing confidence.
• 🎨For a practical play idea, try 'Toddler Car Wash' using a plastic bin of water and a large, soft sponge. Ensure you are within arm's reach while they 'clean' their large, one-piece plastic toy vehicles, and remember to empty the water immediately after play.
• 🗣️Your toddler may be showing an increased interest in participating in conversations, often asking 'why' or 'how' to learn about the world. Engaging in back-and-forth dialogue encourages them to express their thoughts and feelings.
• 🧩If you notice your child having difficulty with physical movements or if they seem to lose a skill they previously used, please reach out to your health visitor or doctor for a chat. Every child progresses at their own pace, and professional guidance can provide extra reassurance.

🏆 Milestones

At 35 months, children may be continuing to expand their physical coordination, engaging in more complex social interactions, and demonstrating a growing ability to participate in daily routines and pretend play.