Growing together: Navigating family life at 32 months

For you

• 💛If a new baby is joining the family, invite your 32-month-old to help with a small task such as bringing a clean nappy. Each child needs care suited to their age; a newborn and a toddler do not need the same food or activities. Offer your toddler a short moment of attention while the baby is safely cared for.
• 🌱If you need a break away from your child, ask another trusted adult to take over supervision first. If no one can take over, stay nearby and keep watching your child while you pause and breathe.
• 🤝If you notice persistent changes in behavior or a loss of skills you have previously seen, do not hesitate to contact your health visitor or doctor for professional guidance and support.

For your baby

• 🧸At 32 months, your toddler is increasingly curious about their place in the family. They may start to express complex emotions about siblings, so validating their feelings—such as saying 'I see you are feeling a bit sad that the baby needs help right now'—can be very supportive.
• 🎨Practical play idea: Create a 'sensory box' for quiet time using large, one-piece sturdy blocks or soft, clean washcloths. Have your toddler practice 'folding' the cloths or stacking the blocks while you sit nearby, which encourages focus and fine motor practice without using small items.
• 🧩You might notice your toddler becoming more interested in the idea of rules and turn-taking. While they are still learning, gently narrating the process, such as 'First it is my turn to stack a block, then it is your turn,' helps them grasp these social concepts over time.

🏆 Milestones

At 32 months, toddlers often show increased emotional awareness regarding those around them, a greater desire to participate in household routines, and the ability to engage in slightly more complex turn-taking activities during play.